Can A Man Lose The Will To Live If He Had An Abusive Father?

 Although a man has been given the gift of life, it doesn't mean that he sees life as a gift. If he was asked to share his thoughts on life, he could say that it is more like a curse than a gift.


But, even if this was not something that was to come out of his mouth, it could be what would come out of if he was able to articulate his experience. Either way, what this is going to show is that he doesn't live a life that is full of joy, pleasure, love and connection.


A Troubled Existence


In general, he could feel down and even be heavily depressed, with it being a challenge for him to get out of bed. During these moments, he might not be able to think of a reason to get up.


What could get him moving is the fear of what will happen if he doesn't get out of bed and get moving. So, this could show that he fears that he would lose his job if he stayed where he was.


Going Through the Motions


This might not be a job that brings him any level of fulfilment, though; it could find it soul-destroying. It could be a job that doesn't require much thought, so he might be able to run on autopilot for most of the day.


Other than the money and perhaps the human connection, it won't do much else for him. When he is there he could look forward to the end of the day and perhaps the weekend, if he only works during the week.


Zoning Out


When he does have time off, he might not make the most of the free tine that he does have. This is then going to mean that he won't do what he can to improve his life in any way, he can just engage in different escapes.


Thus, he could watch a lot of TV, eat a lot of junk food, and spend time with people who are very similar. From the outside, it can seem as though he is wasting his life, yet he won't really want to be here anyway, so he won't appreciate his life or himself.


Another Reality


When a man experiences life in this way, it could be said that he will have given in to how he feels. However, even though a man is this way, it doesn't mean that he won't do his best to run away from what is going on for him.


Consequently, he will rely on his will power to drive him and this can allow him to appear to be the opposite of how he really is. Still, this is not to say that this is something that will consciously take place, as it can be something that unconsciously takes place.


A Different Response


What this means, then, is if the man above spends a lot of time in his parasympathetic nervous system, this man spends a lot of time in his sympathetic nervous system. The former will often be in a passive, helpless state and the latter will spend a lot of time in an active, hopeful state.


Thanks to this, he is generally not going to find it hard to get out of bed and to grab life by the horns, so to speak. He could have a fulfilling job, spend a lot of time 'developing' himself and have a number of friends.





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